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Friday, January 13, 2012

When life throws you a curve ball.


Back in the first week of December our life was turned upside down.
It is amazing how one phone call changes everything.
With respect to my family and their privacy, I can tell you this much, my mother in law was diagnosed with a brain tumor that night.
She had it successfully removed.
We were blessed to learn it was not cancer.
But we have the long rode of recovery ahead of us.

During those first crazy weeks, I found out about a friend from high school and her recent curve ball.
Here is Ethan's story written by his Momma, Melissa.

Ethan was born January 6, 2009. A few weeks before Ethan was to turn 3 years old, our world was turned upside down. After multiple visits to the pediatrician for a puffy eye, we were sent to St. Joseph's Children's Hospital for an MRI that revealed a tumor above Ethan's left eye. Following this discovery, we consulted with the cranial-facial plastic surgeon who would eventually remove the tumor. He ordered a CT Scan for Ethan so that he could get a better idea of how involved the tumor was with Ethan’s skull, eye, and brain. Due to the location of the tumor, it was determined that we would need a neurosurgeon in addition to the plastic surgeon; we also realized that due to the proximity to the brain and eye, we could not biopsy the tumor prior to surgery, which lead to wide speculation of a diagnosis.

From the realization that surgery was a necessity, the plastic surgeon wanted to schedule the operation ASAP in order to protect Ethan’s eye. Unfortunately, due to hospital politics, he was unable to schedule the surgery with a neurosurgeon that he was comfortable working with, so we were referred to the University of Miami. On December 6, we arrived in Miami. We stayed in Miami for 5 days and consulted with multiple doctors and ran more tests. Following more speculation, surgery was scheduled in Miami for December 30, 2011; it could not be scheduled sooner because the neurosurgeon was going on vacation for Christmas. In the mean time, our doctor in Tampa was still working around the clock and calling in favors in order to schedule the surgery in Tampa sooner than December 30 as he did not want to risk allowing the tumor to jeopardize Ethan’s eye. We were sent home to wait until the end of the month and told to “enjoy the holidays.” It seemed that the roller-coaster was never going to end.


On December 16, we got a call that our doctor in Tampa, after exhausting all of his favors, was able to schedule Ethan’s surgery in Tampa for December 22, 2011.
The surgery was a success and the tumor was completely removed. Ethan was diagnosed with Langerhans Cell Histiocytosis (LCH), a rare cancer-like disease that affects 1:200,000 children. While the diagnosis could be worse, this is still a serious disease with no government funding available for researching a cure.

We went to meet with Ethan's oncologist on January 5th and were informed that we would need to be admitted into Tampa General Hospital for a 4-10 day stay so that they could install Ethan's port and test to see if the disease was present anywhere else in his body. During our stay at TGH Ethan had an MRI, CT of his head, chest and abdomen, bone marrow extraction, X-rays of ALL of his bones, a spinal tap, his port was installed and he was tested for diabetes insipidus. This particular type of diabetes is common in children that have LCH. At this time we have gotten all but the spinal fluid test back and they all have been negative. This is WONDERFUL news!! Ethan starts chemo today 1/12/12 and we should get to go home tomorrow!! Ethan has been a trooper through all of this. Definitely stronger than I would be.

The next six months will be difficult as we begin the journey of beating this disease.
On September 27, 2011, our family was blessed with the addition of Liam, Ethan’s younger brother. My husband and I have used all of our available sick time through June 2012 with the leave that we took following Liam’s arrival, making it difficult for us to be off of work. However, Ethan needs us around as much as possible, especially Mommy, over the next 6-8 weeks during his first round of chemo and during any future treatments. We are trying to raise money that will help with the costs of Ethan’s care so that we can keep our focus on keeping his spirits up and beating this disease. Asking for and accepting help has been one of the most difficult things that we have done, but we need any and all help that people can provide.

I know Ethan is not the only child fighting a deadly disease and I know the Haas family is not the only one in need right now.
But helping them could make the difference for a complete recovery and clean bill of health for Ethan.
Melissa has setup a GoFundMe page for Ethan.
Its an easy way to give this sweet little boy a cancer- free future .
If you can't donate, spreading the word would also be amazing way to bless this family with your generosity.
The page is a great way to stay updated on Ethan progress.
So please take a moment for Ethan.

**UPDATE: The Haas Family was told today that chemo will be a year long, not the 6 weeks they originally thought.**


Thursday, January 12, 2012

Mom in the Shot {Jan 10th A family shot to remember her}

This past News Years Day, we gathered, we eat, we laughed, and we remembered her.
It was just in October that we had all gathered last, when my Abuela passed away.
She is was married to the love of her life for 55 years, she was the mother of 7, grandmother of 23, and great-grandmother 9.
She gave the best hugs.
And even though I was one of 23 grandkids, she always made me feel like I was her favorite,
but I am pretty sure she had 23 favorites.


My Uncle took a picture of our crazy crew, minus a few who could not make it.
Can you find me?

It was a great day.
We love you and miss you Abuela.


Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Awk2theWard Wednesday {Jan 11th}

I have not done one of these bad boys in a while.
But lets roll...

Now this image is not necessarily an awkward moment, thats unless he does not stop this habit by the time he is 4, cause then its on the verge of becoming a "situation" {pun intended}.

But it was the moment right after I took this that took the awkward cake.

-Upon leaving the holy land we call Nordstroms, I took Bean into the bathroom for a quick diaper change before our car ride home. As we walked in, a group of 4 ladies walked in with us. I decided I need to use the potty, so by the time I was out of the stall, three of the 4 ladies were washing there hands. I then proceeded to change Nolans diaper. While taking his pants off, I thought oh man did you go number 2? Nope he diaper was just peeps. Then I look over and still just three ladies are lingering at the counter chatting, waiting on their friend.
Um oh wow.
How do you tell your friends to just go ahead and you will be right out?! It was VERY clear what was happening. I kept looking at them trying to do some Jedi mind trick and well them out the door, so their friend could finish her "business".
Nope they just stood there.
AWKWARD.

- See this kid...

He has reach the perfect butt height on me.
Which makes for a ton of awkward moments when he decides to come behind me and wrap his little arms around me and hug fiercely, resulting in his head snug between my bum cheeks.
Yep that awkward.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Come join the fun!


I am a sucker for a handmade swap.
So when my hometown girls of Oh Strumpets, put this little diddy together, I was down!

You should sign up too!
And may we will be partners, can you imagine?!

Monday, January 9, 2012

Felt Heart and Doily Garland


I love decorating for Valentines Day.
It makes me smile.
Little hearts and cheer throughout the house.
This weekend I worked on a little Felt Heart and Doily Garland.
LOVED how it turned out.

Supplies:
- felt
- twine from The Twinery {or embroidery floss}
- piece of paper
- embroidery needle
- paper doilies
- scissors
- glue stick
- stuffing {you can always sacrifice a stuff animal for this}


First thing I did was make my heart template.
Went old school and just folded a piece of paper and cut a heart out.


Then cut to hearts for the front and back. And did the blanket stitch around the heart, you can read my tutorial on Em's blog for this stitch.
Really I wish everything in my world had a blanket stitch.


Once you have 80% stitched stuff your little heart. Remember you need more stuffing then you think.


Once you finish off the stitch, take a piece of twine the length you want the hoop for hanging to be, and thread it through the needle. Pull through and then tie into a knot.


Make as many as your heart desires..



Then I took paper doilies {I bought last year at Target}.
Folded them in half and cut them.


Then spaced them on a piece of twine and added the hearts in-between. Gluing the doilies down with the glue stick.


Hung it up on our family photo wall...



Yep I am in love with it.

Here is a few I embellished...



Another little Valentines Day project from last year.


And the wreath I made last year is making its rounds on Pinterest.


Can you tell I like these colors together?!

Enjoy!


Saturday, January 7, 2012

My favorite photo of 2011 {The Paper Mama Challenge}

When I read The Paper Mama's challenge for the week, my first thought was *phesh* I know
exactly which photo was my favorite from 2011.
Then I went to find it and came across at least 50 more that I thought *phesh* thats my favorite, no this one, oh man but I really like this one.
I guess this will happen when you take at least 15 photos a day.
So lets do the math if I average 15 photos a day x 365 days = an OBSCENE amount of photos.

Here is the one I settled on...

{taken with my phone}

A moment when Buggie was doing her thing and Bean was on the sidelines cheering her on.
I love how it captures a single moment.
Not one of them posed, sitting pretty, and holding hands.
Just them being who they are my fun, loving, carefree kiddies.
And for the cherry on top it is at our beach.
The same exact sandy shoreline that has been our families spot for 5 generations.
My great grandparents owned a little motel right here, so my kids are now the 5th generation to play in this little stretch of the Gulf of Mexico.
And just the thought of it gives me goosebumps.
So yes this is my favorite photo I took in 2011.


The Paper Mama

Friday, January 6, 2012

Let us take a look, what's in your pocketbook? {Guest Starring Marissa from Controlled Chaos}}

Hi all.
Wow it has been a hot min since I blogged.
Not intentional but I guess life got away from me.
But today I am back with "Let us take a look, what's in your pocketbook?"

This month I wanted to share a momma, that I not only know IRL {in real life} but she is part of my extend HUGE fam bam.
Marissa, who I just call my cousin, is actually the sister of my cousins wife.
Yes, we count people that far deep as fam.

Marissa, from Controlled Chaos, is plain and simple the bomb.
She is a Momma to not one, not two, but three, yes three littles under the age of two.
When I tell you she is one of the funniest people I know, I AM NOT KIDDING.

Her blog is a dumping ground of some of the best heart felt, Hi-Larry-Us, Momma rants out there. Not convinced? Read this. Did you laugh out loud? I snort laughed through the whole thing. And honestly I could link about twenty more posts just as AWESOME as that one, but you should just head over and find the gems as there are many!

But lets get to what we came from today.
The bag.
So I normally ask for a picture of the bag and contains, with a "BRIEF" description of the contains. Then based off that I ask the fellow blogger questions. BUT when I received Marissa's pictures and "BREIF" description, I honestly could not think of questions that would even compare to the "BREIF" description that Marissa so graciously provided.

1. Diaper
2. Sunglasses with no case which means they are terribly scratched.
3. Toothpaste. I hate cleaning so much that sometimes I pick stuff off the floor and throw it in my purse. It's easier than walking it to the bathroom.
4. Dried apple snacks. I feed my kids in the car to keep them quiet.
5. A lollipop from Halloween.
6. A fork.......ummmmm I dunno.
7. My E-ticket to Disney for The Very Merry Mickey Parade.

8. Wallet. I am so glad you asked me to do this today because I bought a new wallet. And two days ago all of my cards and receipts were strewn everywhere in my purse. True story - I have lost my wallet a total of four times since the twins were born. That's four times in less than two years. But now I have two drivers licences because I found my wallet from the fourth time right after I bought the new wallet. Redic.
9. 3 MAC Lip Glosses. I can never find one and today I empty my purse and find three. I really only put it on when I see someone I know in public. That is, if I can sneak it on without them seeing me do it.
10. Bobbypins. But they're blonde bobbypins and I went dark about six months ago.
11. One pair of Stella's shoes and one pair of Chloe's shoes.


12. Playdough
13. Gum and chocolate
14. A Target receipt. I actually had about four of these but it looked too trashy so I threw them away. Sorry. It's the only way I edited the contents.
15. Eyeliner I actually put this one some days.
16. Money. Singles only. Boo.
17. Wine/Bottle opener. I don't know from when or why but, I do know it's staying.
18. A perscription for Stella
19. Wipes.
20. The diaper cover from Stella's Christmas dress.
21. A pair of Colton's pajama bottoms. No top, just bottoms???
22. A outdoor carpet sample from Home Depot.

And one thing that I always have in there but isn't for some reason - Bendable Straws because of YOU! Thank you for the fabulous tip. Although, mine are just in a ziploc, not in a pretty toothbrush holder like yours.
Is this too long? Sorry. I have a bunch of crap ; )

Seriously people could I have done better?!
I think not.
So like I mentioned before Marissa, is the bomb diggity.
And I am IN LOVE with her first Pinterest project!
MUAH, Cous, thanks for hanging with us today!